# Tell guests your wedding is adults-only without hurt feelings

> You get the invite line, the website FAQ answer and a kind reply for the cousin who asks to bring the kids anyway.

Explain the decision you've made, like adults-only, a small guest list or no plus-ones, and get warm wording for the invite, the website and replies to anyone who pushes back.

- Page: https://thesolocreators.com/prompts/tell-wedding-guests-a-hard-rule-kindly/
- Category: Upgrade your everyday
- Made for: Everyone
- Works in: Gemini, ChatGPT, Claude
- Time: About 5 minutes
- Effort: Just copy and paste

## The prompt

Fill in the parts in [square brackets], or leave them and the AI will ask you for them.

```text
We've made a wedding decision some guests won't love: [YOUR DECISION, e.g. adults only, except immediate family]. The reason, if we want to share it: [YOUR REASON, e.g. small venue and budget]. Our tone: [YOUR TONE, e.g. warm and a little playful].

Write: 1) one line for the invitation, 2) a short answer for our wedding website FAQ, 3) a friendly text we can send close family before invites go out, and 4) three kind but firm replies for guests who ask for an exception, including one for someone who's upset. Don't over-apologize or over-explain. Keep each piece short and clear so nobody can misread it.
```

## Step by step

1. Decide exactly what the rule is and any exceptions.
2. Paste the prompt into Gemini, ChatGPT or Claude.
3. Pick the version that sounds most like you and adjust the details.
4. Save the pushback replies for when the texts start arriving.

## What you'll get

Invite wording, a website FAQ answer, a heads-up text for family and three kind, firm replies to pushback.

## Good to know

**Which AI tools does this work in?** It works in Gemini, ChatGPT and Claude. On this page, ChatGPT and Claude open with your prompt already typed in. No paid plan is noted for this one.

**How long does it take?** About 5 minutes. It's rated "Just copy and paste". There are 4 steps, listed above.

**What do I need before I start?** Just your details for 3 blanks: your decision, your reason and your tone. You can skip any, and your AI will ask for them.

**What will I get back?** Invite wording, a website FAQ answer, a heads-up text for family and three kind, firm replies to pushback.

Idea spotted on the web, shared by Amanda Caswell (Tom's Guide): https://www.tomsguide.com/ai/planning-a-wedding-let-gemini-help-with-these-7-prompts. The prompt is The Solo Creators' own version.

## Go further

Ready-made skills in the Solo Creators AI Studio (https://thesolocreators.com/studio/) that fit this: TLDR (Your AI stops writing walls of text: every reply leads with the next action, numbered and skimmable); Second Brain (Give your AI a memory it reads across every project, so it finally knows your business).

From AI Use Cases and Prompts by The Solo Creators: https://thesolocreators.com/prompts/. Free to use; please link back to the page when you share it.